It's ok to Remember

If we have been fortunate in our life to have a pet, we know what it feels like to lose one. I lost my Taylor years ago and am so thankful for the time that I had with him, he was a great dog.

People seem to think that it's not ok to grieve or mourn for your pet, but it is. When a pet becomes a part of you and your family and your life, it hurts when they are gone. It's a loss and your heart hurts.

There are ways to cope with pet loss:

• It is alright to grieve. Do not let people dictate your feelings
• You may feel guilt, denial, anger and depression. All those feelings are normal to feel.
• It's good to remember, let yourself remember and think back.
• Help your children cope and all of you mourn together

There are way to help the process of remembering and mourning. There are wonderful items at www.DoggieCoutureShop.com that will help the process and loss become a bit easier. If you had your pet cremated, get a terrific pet urn and place in a central area for all to see. Get a pet photo box and place your favorite pictures in or get a  Life Celebration Kit that comes with thank you notes, and ways to memorialize your loved one.

Whatever your process is of keeping the memory of your pet alive, remember that life does go on.